7 Things To Experience
7 Things You Deserve to Experience
Sometimes
in life, we’re chintzy; we hold back. This happens in all areas of our
lives for countless reasons. Typically, it’s because we are afraid.
Afraid of being: vulnerable, exposed, different, the same, our self,
rejected, wrong, right… the list goes on.
I’ve
written before that it takes courage to show up in this life. I believe
that if we can find the courage and make the choice not to chintz
ourselves and in turn those around us, the dividends will be abundant.
Here are 7 things that deserve to be experienced, shared and explored, rather than chintzed out on:
1. Kindness. Do not hold back on kindness, to yourself or others. Take that yoga
class, go for that walk, call that friend and reconnect. Open the door
for others; give your seat to someone on the bus; let go of needing to
be right and try being kind instead.
2. Affection. Give
and receive hugs, smiles, props – open up to intimacy. Open up to the
physical giving of you; simply sharing a smile, eye contact, a hand
shake or a pat on the back can make a huge difference in a person’s life
(including your own).
3. Knowledge. Reading,
writing, talking – pursue knowledge and understanding at every
opportunity – sometimes we become complacent and lazy when it comes to
the pursuit of knowledge. Be intentional. The opportunity to learn is
around us all the time. Seize it, life is learning and knowledge is
power – what will you learn today?
4. New Perspective. Keeping your eyes, mind and spirit
open to new ideas, understanding and points of view will help to build
empathy and compassion in you and in those around you. If your mind is
closed it becomes stagnant, disallowing growth and opportunity. Rather
than saying ‘That’s not how you do it…’ consider instead ‘Show me a new
way...’ – you never know what paradigm may shift as a result.
5. Contribution. Share
yourself at every opportunity – you are completely unique to this world
– there is no other you, embrace this and share your own unique
perspective, knowledge and qualities as often as you can, do not hold
these gifts back from the world. These are the only things you have to
truly give and the world is waiting. This does not meant that you need
to be an expert, simply share your time; volunteer at a school or
library reading to children, at a food bank or in a retirement
residence, spending time with people in the final stages of their
physical life – you do not need to be an expert in anything, you simply
need to be present.
6. Acknowledgement of Mistakes. Life
is not about being perfect, but rather recognizing that you’re not.
Acknowledge when you make a mistake and own it. Apologizing for mistakes
made, demonstrates a level of self-awareness, modesty and grace –
particularly to our children. This will in turn foster humility, grace
and responsibility, helping to build a society that recognizes this as a
strength, rather than a weakness. It’s a big step in the direction of
Peace.
7. Gratitude. Celebrate each breathe
as a gift. The fact that you are here, on this earth, at this point in
time is mind boggling. Consider all of the elements that had to come
together at just the right time in just the right way in order for you
to exist. It’s overwhelming. Be grateful.
Rather than focus on what you believe is not working, flip it around
and look at all in your life that is; breathing, sunshine, your ability
to walk, your ability to see, your ability to think, contemplate and
voice your opinion. And if you don’t have all of those things, consider
what you do in fact have – if you are reading this be grateful.
There
will always be people to whom you will compare yourself, remember, you
have no idea what journey they are on. What may appear to be a life of
happiness, may be a life clouded by grief… people are good at hiding.
Rather than compare; be kind, affectionate, open, responsible and
grateful.
It’s time to stop being chintzy with your life.
Embrace life, let go of holding on, holding back - just imagine, if you open up for life, what might life open up for you?
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